O'Reilly has just released Flash Remoting: The Definitive Guide, by Tom Muck and friends. The book covers all the ins and outs of Flash Remoting using several languages on teh back end, including ColdFusion MX. I haven't had a chance to review the book yet, but I'm hoping to get the time soon as I've been waiting for a decent book on the topic, and O'Reillt rarely disappoints (and I'm not just saying that because I write for them).
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